The crazy thoughts in my head: Me & My Boyfriend.....

The crazy thoughts in my head

The crazy things in my head

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Me & My Boyfriend.....

You Are An Independent Girlfriend!
Whoa, Ms. Independent! Your guy digs your modern style...But he's sometimes left to wonder if you really like him.Keep that unique spirit, but show him your love a bit more often.No worries - you're light years away from smothering him!
My guy DOES sometimes wonder if I REALLY like him. He thinks im sometimes selfish and I cant stick my neck out for him, as in I'm not Down for him. I agree that I can be a bit selfish but I dont agree with the "down" for him part. We have been having some issues.
I am a VERY jealous person even though I try to play it off as if I'm not. I could be insecure at times- So sometimes, a little thing like him not calling me back after I call him and he misses the call , gets me pissed off. I dont believe in being too busy to call or call back. To me, it is the wackest excuse ever. If u cant call, send a text, Flash me or if u dont have credit to call, go to a pay phone for Gods Sake its just 30 Naira!!!! Or send a "Pls Call me" . So little things like this PISS me off ! (Yeah! Yeah! Call me petty !)
Also, I believe i mentioned some stuff about him having a lot of female friends- how we cant go anywhere in Lagos without him stopping to say hello to someone and 8 times out of 10, Its usually girl!!!! Argghhh!!! Also, a part of me thinks he still has feelings for a particular ex-girlfriend, he says he has a kind of "soft spot" for her because of what they shared......yada yada but that they could never get back together .........(I guess I kinda understand cos i've got a kind of "soft spot" for some of my ex's) But sometimes I wonder if she shows interest in him again, will he go back?
Another problem I have is that we rarely hang out @ nite- Let me explain- My dear OVER-PROTECTIVE parents do not approve of me going out @ nite. Im allowed to go out rarely and even then when it starts getting late(according to them) they start calling me every 5 mins. Till today, I dont know what kind of jazz i used on them when they agreed to let me go to the THISDAY CONCERT . Anyways, so i usually hang out with him during the day, most of the time by 9pm- Im at home. So i always wonder if he has a "nite time" girlfriend and Im the "day-time" girlfriend. (It sounds silly, I know)
He's been on my case since we were kids, now that we are together, he's talking about marriage- To tell u the truth, marriage scares the hell outta me! I always wonder if i can actually stay with the SAME man till death do us part! Will I remain Faithful? Will he remain Faithful? Would we tire of each other and end up wanting to kill each other?
Another thing is, He thinks my Dad hates him. I dont think so, I think my Dad hates all guys who show interest in me, why? Cos he's my dad and doesnt want any guy to "mess up" my life (His words, not mine)
BF thinks my Dad hates him also because he doesnt have a conventional job- BF is a graduate of Business Admin, but instead of going to work in the corporate world like his peers, he chose to open his own business- He's been running it for years now- He's a designer and Daddy doesnt like it. Like I said in a previous post, My dad is a firm believer in the "shirt & tie" jobs......... It doesnt impress him that BF is a designer who not only designs clothes (both native & english), he designs shoes, boxers and everything but womens underwear. To my dad, he's a "Tailor"
Inspite of all this, I know he loves me, I love him too but he claims he loves me more............I dont know.................
Lord help us.
(To be continued)


Blogger Mamarita said...

Ms Understood. How are you? Beem what AGES?!! When did you even move to Nigeria, it seems like I'll be moving back too pretty soon, and then we can officially paint the town pink or whatever color it should be:)
Back to your post, I think we're alike in a whole lot of ways, like someone once told me if your head tells you otherwise, then you are probably right and there's no point investing in something you think will not lead anywhere you know what I mean. You don't want a situation whereby you're dating another woman's husband......*Things happen o my sister*

4:24 AM  
Blogger Eagle's Nest!!! said...

Your Dad's sentiments that the guy is a Tailor got me rolling on the floor...!

Thanks for stopping by my blog!

8:29 AM  
Blogger Justme said...

@ Mamarita- I moved to Nigeria.....Dec 2004, immediately after graduation. Its good to see that u are alive & kicking! My lil bro is in canada right now @the university of windsor..........Let me know when u move to Naija

@ Joel- Lol, I laugh about it everytime i think about it.

1:21 PM  
Blogger Toni Payne said...

"So sometimes, a little thing like him not calling me back after I call him and he misses the call , gets me pissed off. I dont believe in being too busy to call or call back. To me, it is the wackest excuse ever."

and there I was thinking I was alone...guess I am not weird afterall.. lol I mean even if its for 1 second to say babe, im busy. its appreciated right? I guess thats where knowing your mates comes in handy and knowing when to pick your battles..

8:52 AM  
Blogger Justme said...

@ Toni- Wow! I had no idea u were Naija. Good to see a Nigerian doing their thing. Thumbs up!

9:26 PM  
Blogger Overwhelmed Naija Babe said...

lmao@the guy being a tailor.. parents eh.. they just see things the way they wanna 4real! babe.. things that bother you you might wanna talk to ur man about cos he'll never know if you don't tell him.. and when he doesn't notice you're mad then you'll get madder(cos that implies he's insensitive).. and the cycle just goes on.. i mean you don't have to be confrontational about it... just 'talk'!let him know how you feel about issues and see where it goes from there my dear i've learnt that one firsthand when my boifriend almost broke up with me over some trivial shit!!! you already read it on my blog sha... oh and thanks for stopping by.. you're definitely getting bookmarked cos you're a very honest writer and i always love that... have a great week

10:27 AM  
Blogger Justme said...

@ Overwhelmed- I've talked to him and he says i have nothing to be worried about, he loves me & bla bla bla..........

12:42 PM  
Blogger Cherub (former Bijouxoxo) said...

Justme, i know who u are. Ur full name starts with O an ur lastname O-O. U know me but i'm not ready to blow my cover. Anyways, bf shld chill now, or are both of u feeling insecure? It looks like that to me. Anyways, i'm loving ur blog, will be back.

6:28 PM  
Blogger Endi said...

The day your guy gets a catchy name for his outfit and employs some skinny models to pose in his clothes will be the day your Dad would recognise him.Suggested names...Branco Faciotta,..too italian?Ok.What about "Dida Ethnic".Let him try out my sug.Nice blog

11:20 AM  
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3:55 AM  
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5:52 AM  
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4:30 AM  
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6:16 PM  
Blogger LYEV MAHRK said...

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2:35 AM  
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4:54 AM  
Blogger Dr Usunorbu said...

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11:38 AM  
Blogger dodo said...

An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is Dani Santo,i live in United Kngdom,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {},if">{},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the Dr miladi for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again. {} or call +2348150270343, Thanks..

10:05 PM  

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