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My guy DOES sometimes wonder if I REALLY like him. He thinks im sometimes selfish and I cant stick my neck out for him, as in I'm not Down for him. I agree that I can be a bit selfish but I dont agree with the "down" for him part. We have been having some issues.
I am a VERY jealous person even though I try to play it off as if I'm not. I could be insecure at times- So sometimes, a little thing like him not calling me back after I call him and he misses the call , gets me pissed off. I dont believe in being too busy to call or call back. To me, it is the wackest excuse ever. If u cant call, send a text, Flash me or if u dont have credit to call, go to a pay phone for Gods Sake its just 30 Naira!!!! Or send a "Pls Call me" . So little things like this PISS me off ! (Yeah! Yeah! Call me petty !)
Also, I believe i mentioned some stuff about him having a lot of female friends- how we cant go anywhere in Lagos without him stopping to say hello to someone and 8 times out of 10, Its usually girl!!!! Argghhh!!! Also, a part of me thinks he still has feelings for a particular ex-girlfriend, he says he has a kind of "soft spot" for her because of what they shared......yada yada but that they could never get back together .........(I guess I kinda understand cos i've got a kind of "soft spot" for some of my ex's) But sometimes I wonder if she shows interest in him again, will he go back?
Another problem I have is that we rarely hang out @ nite- Let me explain- My dear OVER-PROTECTIVE parents do not approve of me going out @ nite. Im allowed to go out rarely and even then when it starts getting late(according to them) they start calling me every 5 mins. Till today, I dont know what kind of jazz i used on them when they agreed to let me go to the THISDAY CONCERT . Anyways, so i usually hang out with him during the day, most of the time by 9pm- Im at home. So i always wonder if he has a "nite time" girlfriend and Im the "day-time" girlfriend. (It sounds silly, I know)
He's been on my case since we were kids, now that we are together, he's talking about marriage- To tell u the truth, marriage scares the hell outta me! I always wonder if i can actually stay with the SAME man till death do us part! Will I remain Faithful? Will he remain Faithful? Would we tire of each other and end up wanting to kill each other?
Another thing is, He thinks my Dad hates him. I dont think so, I think my Dad hates all guys who show interest in me, why? Cos he's my dad and doesnt want any guy to "mess up" my life (His words, not mine)
BF thinks my Dad hates him also because he doesnt have a conventional job- BF is a graduate of Business Admin, but instead of going to work in the corporate world like his peers, he chose to open his own business- He's been running it for years now- He's a designer and Daddy doesnt like it. Like I said in a previous post, My dad is a firm believer in the "shirt & tie" jobs......... It doesnt impress him that BF is a designer who not only designs clothes (both native & english), he designs shoes, boxers and everything but womens underwear. To my dad, he's a "Tailor"
Inspite of all this, I know he loves me, I love him too but he claims he loves me more............I dont know.................
Lord help us.
(To be continued)